Testing the goods?!?!?!?!?!

Following recent conversations and situations which have happened, I find myself asking do you believe in testing out your partner’s sexual abilities before marriage???????

Please don't get me wrong, I don't mean testing out if your partner can do acrobatics in bed or wherever you choose (as I believe those skills can be learnt) but the mere simple stuff which I believe is more applicable to ladies, can he get it up? Does he have a functioning penis?

Sounds very raw but it is a very honest question. Raised as a Christian, the bible teaches us to abstain from sex before marriage and I've known some girls/ladies who follow this to the T!

Is that still applicable in this current day? In biblical times, girls were married at such early ages leaving no room/little chances to "fornicate"

After hearing so many horror stories; it really makes me think twice. In two very recent situations, both men use the bible as a perfect excuse not to engage in sexual acts with their partners only for the wife to discover after the wedding ceremony, her husband simply can't get it up!!!!! The men (in both these situations) stated well, they have been through the process, the introduction, traditional wedding ceremony and they’ve taken the vows before God so this lady (the new wife) doesn't have a choice. I recently learnt they resort to tricks like pouring ice cold water on the penis to achieve a temporary erection which lasts long enough for penetration.

I’m sure this is not the only horror story of its kind out there out there but this is what I have recently heard

I digress, back to my question, do you believe in testing the goods prior to marriage????

I can only imagine the next question is, how many goods are you going to try before you meet The one and at what stage in the relationship do you test the goods? After testing the goods, if he is not the one then what next??????

What do you think?