After a very long day at work, I’m sitting alone in my living room, having dinner made for one. I’m flooded with thoughts or should is say questions. Thoughts and questions which no one really has the answers for. Thoughts which make me wonder what’s happening. Questions which include when, where and who? Thoughts which make me question myself, my thought process and actions over and over again and at times, keeps me up at night. All these thoughts and questions, occupying my mind with no answer.
To me, it seems like it might be a million dollar question with no obvious answer. So I guess you are wondering what the question is. Why am I single? Why does it seem so challenging and difficult to meet decent good looking guys?
Maybe the question should be, what qualities do men require in ladies? What are guys actually looking for? What are their thought processes when picking a female companion, girlfriend and wife? What are the essential requirements?
Yes I know I have detoured slightly but that is because, I along with many of my female friends am single. My friends and I are all very well educated (yet very humble about our education), beautiful, sexy, some us of even modelesque, independent and with good jobs. Yet, we are all single........
What am I missing? What am I not doing or overdoing? What needs to give? Being a single twenty something knocking on thirty’s door, it dawns on me that maybe I have no idea what a man wants and needs?
What do you think?
